Think an Online Will is “Better than Nothing”? Think Again!

Unsatisfied Woman With Laptop Showing Thumbs DownSo many people are under the false assumption that drafting a Will through an online form or Will kit is “better than nothing.” I disagree. An online Will is actually WORSE than nothing!

You’ve been there. You and your spouse are frantically rushing around trying to get ready for a big trip that you’re finally getting without the kids and then it dawns on you: “What if something happens to BOTH of us?” Cue the internet and searching for a form to download. You quickly answer the questions, print it off, sign it, maybe even get it notarized and think “Well, we KNOW we should see a lawyer about this, but at least this is ‘better than nothing.’” This is one of the biggest misperceptions I hear.

There’s no “close” in Wills & Probate. If a Will isn’t signed with the legal requirements, then it is NOT valid and cannot be used in any way to show your intent! Many times these forms are not even signed correctly. Texas has specific requirements for how a Will is to be signed, witnessed, and notarized. I had a case awhile back where a single man with two adult children decided to use a website to draft his Will. “All” he had was a house, a bank account, and a car. Simple, right? Why go to a lawyer for advice and guidance! When do you find out a Will wasn’t signed properly? Usually when it’s too late…as in this case. When his daughter came to me after he died, I immediately noticed that he signed on one date; the first witnessed signed on a different date; and the second witnessed signed on yet another date. I looked at the daughter and said, “Your dad and both witnesses signed on three different dates.” And she said, “Yes, is that a problem?” Knowing that she is grieving, I gently told her that, unfortunately, the Will isn’t valid as the witnesses not only have to witness her dad’s signature, but also each other’s. Looking slightly defeated, she asked, “Well, can we at least show the court his intent to try and make this easier?” I had to tell her “no.” There is no “close” in Wills and probate. So what did we have to do? File a determination of heirship where the court has to appoint an attorney ad litem to research the heirs and present the findings to the court and then get her brother to agree that she can serve as the executor/administrator of the estate. If you think that sounds quick and inexpensive, you’re wrong. This extra time and expense could have been avoided by seeing an attorney. Why didn’t he go to an attorney in the first place? To save money. And in the end, not only did it cost WAY more money, but caused extra time and grief for his family.

A Will is not enough. Just having a Will is often not all that is needed when it comes to your estate and family planning. (see our other blog “Why a Will is not Enough” Many do not realize that much of their money and assets will not even be controlled by their Will. When you designate a beneficiary on assets such as life insurance, retirement accounts, annuities; those designations will override whatever you stated in your Will.

For parents of young children, you do NOT want to name minor children as a beneficiary on these assets even if you have a Will that creates a trust for them. Rather, you want to direct your beneficiary to your Will with the trust (or a living trust). Who is going to guide you with this if all you did was an online form? If you leave your young child named as beneficiaries on your life insurance or retirement then that money can get stuck in the court and then given to the child at age 18 rather than going through the Will that has a trust and trustees established for your child. But you don’t know that or have any help unless you consult a qualified attorney.

Overall, DIY legal planning is a huge mistake even when you perceive your circumstances to be “simple.” There is simply too much at stake and there is no substitute for sound legal counsel to guide you through these decisions, ensure your wishes will be upheld and that your documents are enforceable. No, an online Will is not “better than nothing”…it is worse than nothing, because it gives you a false sense of security when, in fact, you may still be left with nothing.

If You Died Today, Would Your Family Be Prepared?

Pretty depressing thought, right? I get it, I do. All I can tell you is that it is far less depressing than having your family sitting across from me sharing how you always planned to get a Will and powers of attorney put into place, but just hadn’t gotten around to it.

The problem is, you just never know when an unexpected illness or accident may occur. According to recent statistics in Texas, 1 person is killed every 2 hours and 29 minutes in a traffic accident. One person is injured every 2 minutes and 12 seconds! If you’ve driven on 635 during rush hour, you know this is true! A sudden heart attack takes about 325,000 adult deaths every year. This list goes on and on of how no one is immune from illness or death. So when is the best time to plan? NOW!

I much prefer a call to get your Will drafted than a call from your family that it’s too late. Even the seemingly simplest of situations can become a huge ordeal that could be avoided by some basic planning.

Did you know that without a Will:

  • The court will determine the guardian of your children. Your family could end up in court fighting over the kids, or the kids could end up with a stranger.
  • The court will determine the trustee of your children’s inheritance.
  • The state determines who inherits your estate.
  • The court will appoint an executor for your estate.
  • Your court appointed administrator may have to post a bond to guarantee that s/he is responsibly managing the money the state grants to your underage children.
  • In second marriages with children, a new spouse may become partners with stepchildren or possibly an ex-spouse in handling your estate.

Don’t let this happen to you…don’t put your family through the pain of having to bear avoidable costs and complications during a time of tremendous grief. You’re out of excuses and the time is now. Get your Will and other planning in place today!

And remember: If YOU Don’t Have a WILL, the State of Texas has One for YOU!

What Should I Do After I Sign My Will?

When clients walk out of my office after they’ve signed their Wills and powers of attorney, I often imagine they go home and put their folder in a cabinet or safe and then don’t think about it again. There are a few things; however, I recommend to my clients that they should do once they’ve signed their estate planning documents to ensure their family and loved ones are prepared.

  1. Tell your Executor and Agents. Inform those you’ve named as your executor, medical power of attorney, and other agents of their role and tell them where you keep your paperwork. You will also want to ensure that they have access to your Will Memorandum mentioned below.
  1. Decide the best place for you to keep your documents. I generally recommend keeping your documents in a safe location at home – preferably a fire-proof safe. Some suggest keeping your documents in a safe deposit box because it will protect the documents from theft, fire, accidental loss, and most other types of damage or harm. A potential problem, though, is getting it opened after your death. If you decide to keep your estate planning documents in a safe deposit box, consider naming a family member or your executor as a joint holder on the box. That should simplify matters following your death because someone will be able to get into the box without delay. However, if you and the person you name as a joint holder die at the same time, we are back to square one. Additionally, you may need access to the documents when the bank is not open.
  1. Provide a Will memorandum with vital information and instructions. There is no magic form to complete, but I do provide all my clients with both a hard copy and electronic version. (CLICK HERE FOR OUR DOWNLOADABLE FORM). The Will memorandum provides useful information that your Will or power of attorney alone will not provide, such as where you keep important paperwork (deeds, birth certificates, financial/banking information), people to contact (CPAs, financial planners, attorneys, doctors, friends, family), and your user names and passwords. Additionally, the Will memorandum allows you to make specific bequests of your personal effects. The will memorandum allows you to change your specific bequests without having to prepare a codicil (amendment) to your Will. You may add and cross-out items to this list as often as you wish. Please understand a Will memorandum is not legally binding, but it will greatly assist your family and loved ones with handling your affairs and fulfilling your wishes.

You will feel a sense of relief and peace of mind once you sign your Will, and you should! However, if your goal is to truly make a difficult time as easy as possible, I suggest you take these other steps to make sure your family and loved ones are as prepared as possible in the event the unexpected happens to you!

Why You Need a Will When Purchasing a Home

I am often asked when is it a good time to get a Will. There are many life events that may trigger the need for this planning, such as marriage, divorce, births, retirement. One of the biggest reasons to get a Will or to update your Will is when purchasing a home or real property.

Especially in Texas where we do not have joint tenancy (property ownership whereby the property would pass via rights of survivorship to a joint owner), it is critical to have a Will or trust created to ensure that your home will pass to who you choose. Even if you co-own your home with your spouse, he or she does not have automatic rights to inherit your share if you should die. In the case of blended families, in fact, your share would actually go to your children from another marriage rather than to your current spouse.

I often see the mistake for couples who’ve been married for years when one spouse passes away, the survivor does nothing about transferring ownership to him/herself. So long as you stay in the home, pay the mortgage and the taxes, no one is going to tell you that the title to your home isn’t clear. It usually is when the survivor passes away that the adult children discover that they not only have to handle the estate of their recently deceased parent, but they have to jump through hoops to clear the title from the first parent.

Bottom line, buying a home is one of your most important investments. Do not leave it to chance, or the default laws of Texas, to determine what happens to your home without careful planning.

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7 Reasons YOU Should Get Your Will Before the End of the Year!

1. Increased holiday travel, unfortunately, increases the need for power of attorney and other emergency planning.

2. Many have more time during the holidays to finally schedule a meeting and get their affairs in order.

3. The holidays are an excellent opportunity to talk to your family about these decisions.

4. It’s a lot simpler and quicker than you think to get this vital planning in place.

5. Your Will is a great way to provide charitable giving that is top of mind during this time.

6. It’s your last chance to have peace of mind before it becomes another New Year’s Resolution.

7. If you don’t have a Will, the state of Texas has one for you!

The Myth of the “Simple” Will

I often get inquires about people who just “need” a “simple” Will. I am always curious as to what people perceive as “simple”. Do they think their family isn’t complicated? They don’t have many assets? They don’t want to spend a lot of money? Regardless of the reason, I am here to tell you that there is no such thing as a simple Will!

I know some believe that only those with a high net worth need the time and attention of a well-crafted Will or trust. Nothing could be further from the truth. In fact, the mechanics of how your estate is distributed is quite often the same regardless of how much money or property you own. More often than not, the ease of distributing your estate comes down to the way your Will is drafted or executed. A great example is a few years ago when a woman came in after her father passed away. He had created a Will online because “all” he had was a house, investment account, and a car. He wasn’t married and wanted to leave everything to his two adult children. Simple, right? Before I even reviewed the language of the Will, I noticed that her father and each of the two witnesses all signed on different days! Why? Because no one was there to guide them. My client asked if that was a problem and I had to gently tell her that it was a huge complication in that the Will isn’t valid. At all. She asked if we could at least show it to the judge, but the answer is no. If a Will is not properly signed and executed, it’s as if it never existed. Instead, we had to go through a lengthy heirship determination through an attorney ad litem. This took a great deal more time and a lot more money to settle this “simple” estate.

Some also believe that if their family isn’t complicated, then their Will should be as equally uncomplicated. This is one of the biggest mistakes I see parents of minor children make. Many families will assume everything will fall into place automatically and/or everyone will work it out. One of the best examples I can give is when it comes to beneficiary designations on life insurance, retirement, and brokerage accounts. I’ve had clients who felt like they either didn’t need a Will or, again, could just do a form online. What they are missing is the advice and planning outside of the Will, particularly with beneficiary designations. Did you know that your beneficiary assignments on these assets override anything a Will states? To make matters more complicated (or should I say less “simple!”), you absolutely should NOT name minor children as a beneficiary EVEN if you have a Will that establishes a trust for them. Unless your beneficiary is coordinated to actually feed into that trust, those assets will be tied up by the financial institution that holds them and a court will have to designate a custodian for the funds, which will be distributed to the child at age 18! I have yet to meet a parent who thinks 18 years old is a good time to have a chunk of money handed to a child. How can this be avoided? By realizing that even the simplest of circumstances require careful and thorough planning with a professional.

Finally, I believe many say they want a “simple” Will because they do not want to spend a lot of money. Now, I understand that; however, a friend of mine likes to say “cheap gets very expensive.” Just look at the example above about the man who didn’t have his Will witnessed properly. The cost and time it took to sort that out far exceeded what he would have spent if he had seen a qualified Wills & trusts attorney. One of the reasons I spend so much time educating families and individuals is to help them see the true value in creating a solid estate plan regardless of how “simple” their life and assets seem. In this consumer age where people don’t think twice about dropping thousands of dollars on the newest flat screen TV, fancy jewelry, or lavish vacations, I’m amazed that they don’t see the same value to those dollars when it comes to protecting their family from a reality that WILL face them…unless you’ve figured out a way to cheat death. I realize that is not nearly as fun to contemplate as buying the newest thingamajig, but I think everyone will agree that it is exponentially more important.

Does this mean you have to spend a lot of money to have advanced estate planning? No! But no matter your circumstances, it is worth taking a little bit of time and seeing the value of working with an attorney who can guide you in putting a plan in place so you can have peace of mind that you won’t leave your family in a bind when your time comes.

Life isn’t simple and neither is your Will!

Why a Will is Not Enough

Did you know that most of your estate may not even be controlled by your Will? One of the biggest mistakes I see people make is that they do not realize that much of their money and assets will not be controlled by their Will. When you designate a beneficiary on assets such as life insurance, retirement accounts, and annuities; those designations will override whatever you stated in your Will.

For example, if I have named my mother as the beneficiary of my life insurance, but my Will states that all of my estate should pass to my sister; my mom WILL receive my life insurance and my sister will receive other assets such as my home, car, and personal property.

Therefore, it’s important to work with your attorney and financial planner to ensure your beneficiaries are up to date and worded correctly. That doesn’t mean you will name the same beneficiaries as in your Will; the point is you need advice to help guide you to best accomplish your wishes. Furthermore, you do NOT want to name minor children as a beneficiary on these assets even if you have a Will that creates a trust for them. Rather, you want to direct your beneficiary to your Will with the trust (or a living trust). Alternatively, if you do not have a Will, this is the perfect opportunity to see an attorney to draft this vital planning and assist you with the proper beneficiary designations.

If you don’t have a beneficiary named, or if the beneficiary named is your “estate,” or if all the beneficiaries predecease you, then those investments will be paid to your estate and pass under your Will (if you have one). Please get legal advice before naming your estate as a beneficiary for any assets so that you can fully understand the ramifications.

Certain bank and brokerage accounts will also pass outside your Will. For instance, payable-on-death accounts (sometimes called “POD” accounts) will be distributed to the named beneficiary. Additionally, accounts set up by one or more persons as joint tenants with rights of survivorship will pass to the surviving account holder or holders. Not all joint accounts pass to the survivor. When joint accounts are set up as tenants in common, the portion of the account that was owned by the decedent passes under his or her Will.

You may find that most of your estate consists of non-probate property. Therefore, it is extremely important to coordinate the beneficiaries of all these properties to make certain your assets will be distributed as you want when you pass away.

 Conclusion: A Will is not enough to ensure that your final wishes are carried out and that your loved ones are properly cared for. Therefore, make sure you seek legal advice to assist you with this vital planning, because if you don’t do the planning, the state of Texas will do it for you!

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3 Reasons NOT to Draft Your Will Online or With a Will Kit

  1. Much of your estate may not even be controlled by your Will. Did you know that when you designate beneficiaries on assets such as life insurance, retirement, bank accounts, and investments that those beneficiaries supersede a Will? So while you think you are covering everything by filling out a “simple” form, you may not even be addressing the biggest chunks of your money. Worse yet, if you have minor children listed as a beneficiary, the financial institution will not consider your Will, instead the court will have to step in and appoint who controls the money and it will be given to your child at age 18…not typically the best age to make money decisions.
  2. The way your Will is signed is just as important as what it says. I am constantly amazed when I review Wills that were drafted through online programs and will kits that they aren’t even worth the paper they’re printed on. Many are under the impression that so long as a legal document is notarized, it is valid. That is not the case for a Will in Texas. There are strict requirements when it comes to the signing, witnessing, and notarization for a Will to be valid. I even reviewed a Will where the individual and two witnesses all signed on different days! Guess what, that is not “witnessing” and that Will was NOT valid. Unfortunately, usually when you find out a Will wasn’t signed properly is once someone has passed away, so it is literally too late to fix it. And the court cannot take into consideration what the Will said. Only a validly signed Will can provide guidance as to who can carry out your wishes and how you want money and property distributed.
  3. What assurance do you have when you’re told that a bank, hospital, or other entity will not recognize your document? I tell my clients that there is the real world and the legal world, and they don’t always match. Sometimes certain entities such as banks or hospitals or even funeral homes will tell you that the document you are presenting is not valid. Perfect example is a Power of Attorney for financial matters. At least once a month, I hear a story where a bank won’t honor a power of attorney for various reasons. If you drafted that Power of Attorney on your own, what would you say? You’d probably walk away because you have no idea and you have no one to call. Now if you had an attorney prepare that document, you’d probably tell the bank “It must be valid and by the way, let’s get my attorney on the phone!” I have had to step in many times to correct misinformation. The peace of mind you have by going to attorney will ensure that your documents has met all legal requirements and you have someone on your side to make sure that your wishes are honored.

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5 Reasons to Get a Will this Summer

1. Getting Married. It’s wedding season and getting a Will (and powers of attorney) is one of the most important steps newlyweds should take. Even though they are married, spouses do not have automatic rights to make medical or financial decision, to inherit property, or even serve as executor.

2. Buying a House. Many will buy a new home this summer and the best (and the ONLY way for the most part) to ensure your biggest investment goes to whom you want upon your death is to have a Will or trust established. That even includes jointly owned property!

3. Traveling. Everyone is hitting the road and traveling this year. In the event of an accident or emergency, you want to have peace of mind that the right people are able to make medical or financial decisions for you, especially if you are out of town.

4. Remember that New Year’s Resolution? The year is over half over, so time is running out to scratch that resolution off your list to finally get your Will put in place. Summer time is a GREAT chance to get your legal documents together before the Fall rush when we all get way too busy. Most people can complete all their planning in under 4 weeks!

5. If You Don’t Have a Will, the State of Texas Has One for You!  There really is no better time to get your affairs in order than NOW! So why not this Summer? Every day you go without a properly drafted, Texas-specific Will, a medical power of attorney and directive, or someone designated to make financial decisions, you are taking a risk of putting your family and loved ones in a terrible bind. It may not be fun to think about, but if you don’t make these important decisions, a judge will and is bound by the default laws of Texas. Don’t let that happen!